Dear Andrea,
I am just getting around to replying to your letter of August 10. Tim is just finishing up in Frankfurt as I write this, and we expect him back here around 3 pm. You are certainly right that we will miss him very much when he goes to the US, but I think everyone is agreed that this move is the right one. We have been lucky to have him back home almost every weekend over the last few months, and we took a couple of nice trips with him over the past year, so we are thankful for that. I am trying not to get so emotional about all this, but I am reminded of the museum we went to in Ireland last March. There was an exhibition about how the older members of families felt so despondent when their children got on the boat to make the long and dangerous trip to America. With telephones and airplanes, the situation is a lot less stressful now than it was in those times.
The main uncertainty is clearly Tim's job-hunting. One of the main reasons I think it is a good idea for Tim to go the US is because I believe he can find a better position there than here in Germany. We hope that he finds something soon, but we also understand that this might not happen. I just hope that he keeps a positive attitude about all this, and doesn't let it affect his relationships to others, particularly to you and your family. He is very dependent on you all, and so I hope that he always acts like a good guest, at the very least.
Tim himself is quite eager to make this trip and to be with you. It should be an exciting time for both of you, so make the most of it. I assume we will be kept well-informed of developments, and we will just plan on this basis. A friend of mine once told me that he found the period when he was without a job quite useful for his future life, because it gave him extra time to think about things. Tim has a lot of people supporting him, and that should continue to give him confidence about the future even when there are great uncertainties about what will happen next.
I hope very much that you and Tim have a happy and successful time ahead of you. Please tell your parents that we appreciate their taking Tim into their home to help get him started in America. We hope to see you all in the not-too-distant future.
With all best wishes,
Sincerely yours,
Bob